MY HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME WITH PROSTITUTES: I never believed our Relationship can get back stronger if not for This….

I share my story as both a lesson and source of inspiration for other ladies who maybe passing through the trauma of infidelity from their partners?

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The day I discovered my husband was cheating on me is forever etched in my mind. I will never forget my bewilderment, shock, confusion and my uncertainty about what to do next. I was totally devastated.

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My name is Doreen, I am an Event Planner based in Lekki, Lagos State.

I was returning home one fateful Thursday afternoon in November, 2018 and was in a taxi,

Then there was a traffic jam along Lekki-Epe Expressway which made the driver slow down. On my right, a car caught my attention because it looked exactly like my husband’s car.

Then, I managed to see the driver….. it was my husband.

He was supposed to be at work so what was he doing in the middle of the road at his usual working hours? I noticed he was not alone. Beside him, was a woman, whose face I could not see. While I was trying to see her face, the car drove off.

I am not naturally jealous,

I just wanted to understand what may have prompted my partner leaving office so early. I dialed his cell phone number, which rang for a long time before switching to answering machine.

I didn’t leave a message.

When he later arrived home in the evening, I told him: “I met you this afternoon, on the road.”

He did not blink, and simply said: “Yes! I was out to get some stuff”,

When I told him that there was a woman in his car, he quickly said it wasn’t him that I saw.

I was stunned. How could he lie about that? I had clearly seen the car. And as for her, who was she? I wondered what to do.

Create a scene or ask him questions?

I chose to keep quiet, then, as I went to bed, I thought about it and concluded that he had a mistress.

Prior to the incident, I had thought everything was fine with our marriage. We both had a lot of work, then there were the children, who needed constant attention. Our s3x life was not that blossoming but it was satisfactory, at least for me!

Then I thought!... Was he in love with this other woman? Would he leave me for her? Even if it will break my heart, I had to know it. I could not stand his silence.

So I did what women do when they think their husband is cheating on them. I searched his pockets, I listened to the messages on his voice mail, I looked at the numbers stored on his cell phone and found nothing.

No suspicious message or compromising blue card bill… Nothing at all.

One morning I decided to follow him to work. With my girlfriend’s car, I followed him as soon as he left the house. He went to his office and stayed there all morning.

I decided to hang around and be on the look-out; in fact I sacrificed that whole day for him to clear my curiosity. At some point in the afternoon, I got tired and went home.

Still after freshening up, I went back to the same spot around 5:00pm when I know he will be closing from work.

One hour later at exactly 6:00pm, Bola came down, entered his car and left the office. I had trouble following him due to huge traffic on Lagos roads. 

But I persisted.

I imagined that “the lady” lived near the place where I first saw them and he was going to meet her.

My heart hurt, I drove hard as I followed him. Suddenly, his car slowed down towards the sidewalk. He was driving slowly.

Why was he doing that? I did not understand.

Then I saw some girls standing a few meters from each other, very little dressed despite the cold evening. I immediately understood, even before one of them approached his car and they spoke briefly.

Horrified…

I watched as the girl entered his car and they drove off. I felt like I was having a nightmare. I did not have the courage to follow them. I put my forehead against the steering wheel and cried. I never expected such from Bola.

I loved him so much and never believed he can cheat on me.

In the evening, when he came back, after the children had slept, I confronted him. He looked embarrassed, but not that much. He then tried to explain to me that he loved me and that these visits did not matter.

He said he didn’t have s3x with those ladies, he only hired them for a blow-job and doing “that” was not “cheating me”.

I could barely listen to him.

That night, I couldn’t catch some sleep; I had in mind a lot of terrible images, of him, of those women, in our car, in unusual places. I couldn’t believe that the father of my children and my husband for seven years was making out with other women. How could he say that such was not “Cheating”?

When I looked at his body, I had the impression that with those girls, he has soiled our intimacy; he has soiled our bed, my body, and my head. He contaminated our love with something “dirty”.

Making love with him became very difficult. As for b-job, it was impossible. I tried, but I could not.

We decided to go for counseling and when we got there he narrated his reason for seeing prostitutes;

He said…

“It’s true that I have great s3xual needs, like most men. My wife may not have realized it, or I was afraid to express my desires. Maybe I respect her too much to ask her for certain things, including b-jobs.

It is also true that she is often tired, with work, and our children so I try not to disturb her with my s3xual demands.I have always been fascinated by prostitutes who wait for the man at any time of the day and night. I think they excite me since I was a teenager.

The first time I went there was after the birth of my daughter. I was horny, and my wife wasn’t ready so I used the alternative….prostitutes…I found it nice and easy then I went back several times a month. I had a difficult adolescence.

So for me, prostitutes were like an easy way out.

It was not deceiving my wife. Prostitutes are there to relieve the desires of men. I do not give them an appointment, I do not call them, I do not talk to them. The routine is simple, after payment, they render the service and get gone.

I was boiling with rage as he was narrating all these…

He said that…

“prostitutes exist so that men do not deceive their wives with a mistress. I do not feel unfaithful at all. Besides, I have never slept with one of these women. They only give me a b-job. That’s all. For me, it’s not deceiving. It’s not like I have adventures. But Doreen does not agree. For her, I am guilty of adultery.”

Despite all these, I still loved him and wanted to save my marriage.

He had promised not to see those girls again and go ahead with the therapy but how could I believe him? How could I trust him?

Some months after the therapy, I could tell that he stopped seeing those girls momentarily but he later continued in his cheating antics and this time in more discreet ways changing different locations.

Now, he does his things in ways that it will be difficult to trace him but I know as his wife that he is still being promiscuous.

At a time I became tired of confronting him and left everything to God.

One fateful afternoon, I was in the room all alone crying my eyes off about his latest escapades and suddenly the door opened and it was my younger sister Gladys who is in higher institution.

She said that she had been knocking at the entrance door with no one responding before she decided to come in. She inquired on why I was in such mood. And I had to open up to her and she told me that there is someone she will recommend to me who can help out in such situation.

She said that the person is a Marriage Counsellor his name is Mr. Emeka and she got to know him from a platform online named “Single-To-Married”. She narrated how he had helped her friend Oluoma who had similar case through one of his eBooks he recommended to her in addition to follow-up counsellings.

She gave me the website address and his contacts.

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Later on, I called Mr. Emeka and narrated my situation to him, he fixed a subsequent counseling session with me and recommended two of his recent eBooks “HOW TO SAVE YOUR FAILING MARRIAGE” and “HOW TO STOP AND WIN BACK A CHEATING PARTNER” to me.

Within my first one week of using these eBooks, my eyes were opened to a lot of attraction triggers and relationship techniques I can easily adopt to stop my partner from cheating on me without him knowing and also win back his heart.

I diligently followed every detail and to my greatest surprise.

At exactly 4 weeks after using the techniques in the eBook on my husband,

Bola came home early from work one Friday afternoon and told me that there are a lot of things that he had noticed about me of late which made him to regret ever cheating on me.

I was taken aback by his comments and before I know what’s happening he is already on his knees seeking my forgiveness for his waywardness and making pleas upon pleas that he will never cheat on me again.

He specifically told me that, he couldn’t concentrate on his work throughout that day and when he couldn’t bear it any further he decided to come back home to me.

Tears started rolling down my cheek and I didn’t waste time further to embrace him and help him stand up.

And from that day onward, I saw genuine intention to be a good husband from him and he truly became more committed and bonded to me and our kids.

Gradually, I recovered from the negative emotions his previous escapades had caused me.

After we reconciled, based on the counseling I got from Mr. Emeka we decided to always meet up during lunch break to ward off any back slack on his part to his old ways till further notice.

In fact, I bought my sister a very special gift for the advice she gave to me and for Mr. Emeka, I never failed to register my appreciation to him for helping me to win back the love of my life.

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